Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Meatless meals



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Last November I stopped cooking meat at home. I had been wanting to reduce our meat consumption for a while, but it just seemed so hard to change all of my regular recipes for new vegetarian ones. It turned out that it wasn't as hard as I had feared to kick the meat habit.

I started with a one-month commitment, figuring we could go without until the Thanksgiving turkey. I don't keep secrets from my husband, but I made an exception and didn't tell him we about eating meat for the first week. I wanted to make sure this commitment was going to stick, and I figured once I got a few tasty meatless meals in him he would not protest.

It turns out I had nothing to fear. I had to step out of my recipe comfort zone (some may refer to as a rut) and find new ones, but I discovered many easy, delicious, and satisfying meals that my husband and three-year old both love. I even made lasagna for my in-laws with vegetarian sausage that they raved about. Truth be told, we have fallen off the wagon as the busy-ness of summer took over. Part of the beauty of this is that you can do what you can, and be as committed as you want at any particular time.

There is a wonderful effort called the PB&J Campaign, a campaign to reduce the amount of animal products people eat by encouraging people to eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich instead of meat and dairy. Really, any plant-based meal will do, but a PB&J is something pretty familiar to even the biggest meat-lovers, and tasty too. It is a fun way to think about reducing your footprint, but the impact is quite significant. According to their website:

-Each time you have a plant-based meal like a PB&J sandwich you reduce your carbon dioxide emissions over an animal-based meal by 2.5 pounds for lunch.
-If you have a PB&J instead of red meat, you reduce your carbon footprint by 3.5 pounds.
-You also save a whopping 133 gallons of water at lunch, and 24 square feet of land from deforestation and pollution.

Holy cow!

The numbers don't work out perfectly, as my family does eat dairy and eggs, but on average my family is saving:
-22.5 pounds of carbon each day, 540 pounds each month, and about 7000 pounds per year;
-7128 gallons of water per week, or 373,000 per year; and
-1296 square feet of land each week.

That's nothing to shake a stick at.

I'm thoroughly convinced that anybody can do this. You get to make rules that work for your family, whether you want to remove meat at one meal per week or avoid all animal products for one month each year. For our family, we started by not eating meat at home, but eating whatever we want at restaurants (about once a week). We occasionally do cook meat for visitors and on special occasions. It also helps that we happen to really like peanut butter and jelly.


Saturday, August 20, 2011

Sleeping Bear Dunes

Last weekend we met up with dear friends visiting from Ann Arbor at the Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore. It was wonderful!


We hiked the dune climb and talked about life while our four children played around in the sand. Being ankle deep in sand made me feel so grounded, and the fresh air was so purifying. It had been a stressful week for all of us adults, and being outdoors in that incredible place put everything in perspective. No problem feels very big when you're standing atop a giant hill of sand. No problem feels permanent when the very ground you stand on was dropped by glaciers over a million years ago and shifts with the wind. Everything will be okay.

And then, there was this:

People climbing up the 450, a 450 foot tall and very steep sand dune, sloping down to Lake Michigan

The Sleeping Bear Dunes are gorgeous. When we walked out to overlook the 450, the view took my breath away even though I have been here many times before. The water was so blue and the lake and sand and sky are so immense. We could see Lake Michigan in three directions, and we could see the Manitou Islands in the distance.

The beauty is so powerful that it was not much of a surprise to me when the Sleeping Bear Dunes were voted the most beautiful place in America this week. It sure does feel good to have a place in Michigan recognized in this way. It has been hard to live in a state that has had it so rough in recent years, and a state who has been the butt of so many national jokes. It feels good to finally get some national recognition of the things that make our state a great place to live.

Friday, August 19, 2011

10 years ago...

Moments after getting married, August 18, 2001

Yesterday Ross and I celebrated our tenth anniversary. He is really very good at these kinds of things. We went went out to dinner and watched the sunset over the bay, and he gave me a lovely gift. My favorite part of all was the card he gave me. In it he wrote all over little summaries of some of our best memories together. It made me laugh...and cry.

He listed some great memories, like hiking to Machu Picchu together right out of college. He also listed the funny and spontaneous moments that became big memories for us. For example, on that same trip, in the midst of an incredibly long bus ride through the Peruvian desert, we stopped at a truck stop for lunch. I ordered fish and the meal came with the fish's head still attached. I was very grumpy about it, so Ross started singing "fish heads, fish heads eat em up, yum." I recall that his song just made me grumpier. But looking back, it is a really funny memory, and a moment that brought us closer together. So, on the anniversary card, he simply wrote "fish heads in Peru" to evoke that memory.

I love him for singing that song, and for appreciating that moment, and for being here 10 years later to remind me of it. I'm grateful for the thousands of other memories we've made together along the way, and the many, many more to come.


the blog has a brand new look

The creative juices were flowing tonight and I made a new header for this blog. Ta da!

The amazing thing is that I did it all in less than an hour, following a tutorial from Clover Lane that you can find here. In the process I also discovered and downloaded Picasa, a free photo editing and design program, and I'm looking forward to seeing what else I can create with that one.

Slowly this little blog is getting a personality of her own...

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Goddess inspiration

My obsession of the day is the Goddess Guidebook written by Goddess Leonie, who I just totally adore. She is so full of joy and simple little nuggets of wisdom. She is so herself that I feel like she gives me permission to be myself, even to be silly and light and fun in my professional and everyday life. She also bears an uncanny resemblance to my dear friend, Laura, who is also a guru of mindfulness and spirituality.

Just now I curled up in the quilt my grandma made for me with a cup of coffee and the sound of my husband and boys playing in the backyard (ah, heaven!) and read her blog and watched a little video of hers.

I really like this video on how to give yourself what you need. I watched it a few weeks ago and realized that what I really needed at the time was to spend good quality time with my little boys enjoying the summer, so that is what I was able to focus on. I was able to put other things aside, realizing that there would be a time for work, for making our home beautiful, and everything else. It just took being still for one minute to figure out what I needed at that time. And I'm so glad I did. It has been a GREAT summer, and the boys have thrived with the attention. So have I.

I also love this one about overcoming the sense of overwhelm. Ever have so much going on or on your to do list that you don't know where to begin or how to attack it? I think we all do. This is a beautiful, simple approach to addressing that.

I love being able to tap into her joy and wisdom on her "Goddess TV channel" (yes, goddess TV. love it!) on YouTube any time I have a few minutes, and bringing more mindfulness to my life. I hope you do too!

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Check this off my Mondo Beyondo list, twice!

Back in July I wrote a post about auditioning for and getting a singing part in the Traverse City lip dub video, a city-wide music video. Well, it came out a couple of weeks ago, and here it is:

Traverse City LipDub from FishSoup Films on Vimeo.


I'm near the end, I join my new friend Dave right after he throws records into the air.

It was such a great experience. The highlights would have to be:

-Meeting so many fun and friendly people. I got to spend some time with the other singers near me during the filming, and they are such nice people. I think I made some new good friends there. In fact, I just went out last night with my new friend Micki who was the singer right after me in the dub.

-Watching the premier of the film on the big screen in the open space (a big park on the Grand Traverse Bay). For the Traverse City Film Festival there is a giant movie screen inflated in the park and free movies are shown all week at dusk. The lip dub was shown to open the first movie, and I got to see myself, and see Traverse City in all its glory, on the big screen. Now, since I have a tendency to be critical of myself already, watching myself on a 100 foot projection was a bit shaking, but it was also pretty darn awesome. And I think I can officially check getting on a movie screen off my Mondo Beyondo list of big dreams and goals, for sure.

-Stepping outside of the old comfort zone. I truly believe that doing things that stretch what you are comfortable with and putting yourself out there makes you braver and stronger. It shakes the cobwebs off of life and makes things a little bit more vibrant and fresh. I'm so glad I did it. Oh, and being in a guerrilla dance/singing video was also on my Mondo Beyondo list, so there's another life goal to cross off.


Tuesday, August 9, 2011

These are the good old days


Today I have a babysitter and so I came to the public library to get some writing done. Driving here by myself I felt almost giddy with the freedom of it all, a cherished break from being the caregiver to my two young boys. I was looking forward to setting up my laptop next to a giant window overlooking Boardman Lake, and having a few hours of peace and quiet and uninterrupted writing.

Wouldn't you know it, as soon as I walked in door, I was reminded of my little boys. We have been here dozens of times for story hour, and then to play with the puppets, fill up our bag full of books, and play on the train in the children's garden. I have so many fond memories with them here. The laughter and hushed squeals of preschoolers echoed through the library as I walked in and I missed my boys so much my heart ached.

The same thing happened a few weeks ago when I ran an errand to the mall one evening. I was feeling especially tired after a long week and was happy to have a few minutes to myself. But as I walked past the play area and heard the screams of toddlers, I longed for my boys to be with me. It dawned on me that day that I might always feel that way. When I am in my fifties will I miss the toddler and preschooler versions of them every time I come into a library? Maybe, but probably not.

I think what these moments do is keep me in balance. They remind me that even though it is challenging at times, I am so glad that my boys are at this age right now. This is the season of my life that I am in right now and I love it. There are things to look forward to, like more time for myself, but I don't wish to speed things up. Actually, if I could slow down time I would, and I would linger a bit longer in the sweet and silly moments with my babies. But I cannot do that either. I am learning that the key is to enjoy life in the moment.

Once, years ago, I was reminiscing with my Aunt about a really fun family reunion we had when we spontaneously started a dance party outside of a Billy Ocean concert (yeah, that dates me, huh?). I said, "ah, the good old days." And my Aunt, with two young girls of her own at the time replied, "No, *these* are the good old days right now." And I know that these days, right now, are the good old days for me. If I do it right, every season of my life can be the good old days.